A complete guide to eloping in Scotland

A complete guide to eloping in Scotland


Where should I elope in Scotland, what time of year, where should I stay, where do I get flowers from? In this guide, I share my experience and knowledge in planning an elopement in Scotland.

Imagine walking through the mountains in your muddy boots. The sun might be shining, or the rain is drizzling, but either way, this day is an adventure. You find a quiet spot to say your vows to your partner, surrounded by breathtaking scenery. Perhaps it is just the two of you or a handful of people you love around you.

In Scotland, you can get legally married anywhere outside with the most breathtaking backdrops, which means you aren’t limited by wedding venues or weekend dates. Whether it is the mountains, a loch, woodland, or a castle – you have so many incredible locations to choose from in Scotland.

Places to elope in Scotland

Assynt

Assynt is a spectacular area with lochs, waterfalls, castle ruins and rugged rocky mountains. It is located on the popular NC500 tourist driving route around Scotland. Assynt also boasts white sand beaches, including the popular Achmelvich Beach. Assynt is a more remote area compared to other areas of Scotland, so it tends to be on the more quiet side, particularly outside of the Summer months. Overall there are fewer facilities in the area, but more opportunities to find yourself alone in the landscape.

Some locations worth considering for an Assynt elopement are Wailing Widows Falls, Ardvreck Castle and Achmelvich Beach. If you’re an avid hiker, Stac Pollaidh rewards you with stunning views.

Wedding Inspiration

Achmelvich Beach & Assynt Elopement

Assynt accommodation ideas

Kylesku Lodges | A rustic hideout

The Albannach | 200 year old highland home

The Cairngorms

The Cairngorms is rich with natural beauty, with still lochs, woodland, castles and whisky distilleries to explore. The ancient forests here make for a quiet and secluded ceremony spot, where you can say your vows tucked amongst the trees or by the side of a loch.

My favourite locations for a wedding in the Cairngorms include Loch an Eilein, Loch Vaa and Lochan Uaine. The Cairngorms is also blessed with many different beautiful places to stay – some of which you can get married onsite. 

Cairngorms accommodation ideas

Hidden Highland Retreats | Heritage-restored luxury properties

Gairnshiel Lodge | Luxury hideaway lodge

Killiehuntley Farmhouse | Immersive Scottish experience in guesthouse or self-catered cottages

Glen Dye Cabins | Luxury cabins surrounded by wilderness

Glenfeshie cottage | Modern conservation estate

The Lazy Duck | Award winning off-grid cabins

Fife Arms Hotel | Luxury boutique hotel

Edinburgh Elopement

Edinburgh’s skyline is defined by a mix of natural and man-made landmarks but nestled on a peak of its own, somewhere between the hills of Arthur’s Seat and the monuments of Carlton Hill, sits Edinburgh castle, which looks down onto the city streets below.

Get lost in the maze of cobbled laneways through Edinburgh’s historic stone buildings, taking in the sound of bagpipes that are often heard echoing through the streets, and in the right weather, the smell of malted barley and hops from the city’s breweries lingers through the air.

See more in my guide to getting married in Edinburgh

Glencoe Elopement

For many, Glencoe is the heart of the Scottish highlands. While the area is popular with tourists, and with good reason, there are still many places here to find yourself alone in nature, and some are not as far off the beaten path as you might imagine.

The landscape truly does have something for everybody here, and while it looks stunning covered in winter snow or glorious in summer sunshine, my favourite season in Glencoe is Autumn. The landscape takes on a radiant golden hue, which adds colour to the greyest of highland days. Some popular locations to visit in Glencoe include Glencoe Lochan, Glen Etive, Steall Falls and Loch Etive.

Wedding Inspiration

Autumn Glencoe Wedding

Rainy Wedding at Glencoe Lochan

Glencoe accommodation ideas

St Mary’s Space | Creative space for eclectic couples

Glencoe House | Luxury hotel in the highlands

Ardrhu House | A restored manor with sweeping views

Luxury Eco Cabin | Views of Ben Nevis

 

Isle of Skye Elopement

The Isle of Skye is a popular destination for travellers and tourists. Skye is a place of dramatic scenery, with a variety of spectacular landscapes to explore. Wandering amongst the clifftops along the Quiraing will leave you feeling like you have travelled to another world. A short drive away from here is the Fairy Glen, where it feels like you’re walking through a real-life fairytale, with its enchanting grassy hills and unique landscape.

For those seeking a more remote location, a ceremony at Loch Coruisk is truly an adventure, with a scenic boat ride with Misty Isle Boats to get there.  And of course, no trip to Skye would be complete without a visit to the famous Talisker Distillery. Skye is not short of unique and incredible places to stay – there is something for everyone here.

Wedding Inspiration

Stormy Isle of Skye Elopement

Rainy Isle of Skye Wedding

Isle of Skye accommodation ideas

The Crofters House  | A cosy cottage by the bay

Strawbale Bothy | Eco friendly cottage made from natural materials

Mint Croft | Luxury self catering cottage

Skye Red Fox Retreat | Central location for Skye’s famous Quiraing and Storr

Blackhouse | Modern cottage with stunning views

Kinloch Lodge | Luxury hotel, great for foodies

Harlosh |  A stunning hideaway

The Black Shed | Award-winning architecture

Osdale Cottages | Secluded and peaceful location

A bride leads a groom down a mountain in the Fairy Glen of Isle of Skye

 

Torridon Elopement

Torridon is a hidden gem on Scotland’s West Coast. Rugged mountain tops, sometimes dusted in snow, stand tall above tranquil bays and secluded woodlands. This region is a favourite for lovers of all types of outdoor activities. Like Assynt, there are limited facilities and accommodation options here, but if you’re seeking a secluded location that is off the beaten track, Torridon is certainly a contender. Am Ploc is a tucked-away spot for a ceremony featuring the ruins of an Open Air Church. The shores of Loch Maree are also a stunning backdrop for a wedding ceremony.

Wedding Inspiration

Autumn Scottish Highlands Elopement

Torridon accommodation ideas

The Net Store | Holiday home on the Applecross Peninsula

The Torridon | Luxury hotel

Shieldaig Lodge | Highland lodge retreat

A couple hug eachother as they stand in the mountains of TorridonA bride and groom hold hands and look out at a loch in Torridon

Other Elopement Locations ideas

There are so many stunning spots and hidden gems around Scotland. Here are some more locations that may be less well-known but equally beautiful.

Alladale Wilderness reserve | Scottish Highlands Luxury

Neidpath Castle | Historic castle on the outskirts of Edinburgh

The Croft Collective | Off-grid wilderness in Oban

WildLand Cottages | Design-led highland escapes

The Dundonald | Luxury accommodation in the historic town of Culross

Guardswell Farm | Eco-considered and design-led accommodation

Lundies House | Stylish boutique hotel in north west highlands

Inverlonan Bothies | Luxury remote bothy in Oban

Kilmartin Castle | Rustic charm in a 500-year-old castle

Seasons

Spring & Summer (March – September)

The daylight hours are long in Summer. Light starts to appear around 5am in the morning and sunsets extend through to 10pm. The best time to take photos in Summer is early in the morning or late in the evening, where the light is softer and more flattering.

Scotland transforms into a vibrant green landscape, with flowers and grass flourishing. The country is much busier with warmer temperatures and increased tourism. Carparks are more likely to be full and popular tourist locations have high numbers of people visiting every day.

 

Autumn & Winter  (September – March)

I adore the muted browns and golden colours of Autumn & Winter. The temperature starts to drop and the mountains start to get a dusting of snow. The daylight hours are very short, but the light is soft and beautiful to shoot in all day. Personally, I think the cold temperatures are worth embracing to have the incredible colours of Winter, potential snowfall and also very few tourists.

 

What to wear for a Scotland elopement

Whatever you think the weather is going to do in Scotland, it will most likely do the opposite. The weather constantly changes, but it’s this changing weather that creates beautiful light and spectacular photos. To elope in Scotland, you need to be prepared with the right gear, be flexible, patient and ready to embrace anything.

My best piece of advice if you want natural and spontaneous photos is to wear an outfit you can move in comfortably. I also recommend shoes that will keep your feet dry if you’re getting married in Autumn or Winter. Thermals, wool leggings, gloves and wool socks are all a must in the colder seasons! Be prepared with lots of warm layers and waterproof clothing so that you’re ready for anything that the unpredictable Scottish weather throws at you. Shawls and blankets are a popular choice for extra warmth over a dress and are easy to take on and off as needed.

Feather & Hay is a local artist who weaves stunning shawls in her home in the highlands

The Tartan Blanket Co sell shawls and blankets and have a wide range of colours and styles

 

How to get legally married in Scotland

What do you need to get legally married in Scotland? Ultimately it is a date, location, the correct paperwork, two witnesses and an authorised person to conduct your legal ceremony. The rest is up to you!

You will require two witnesses whose details need to be filled out before the day. So, how do you find two people to witness your ceremony? Luckily, your photographer can count as a witness! Other ideas include your videographer, bagpiper, florist, musician, hotel or venue staff member. Your celebrant may also be able to bring a witness, so it is worth talking to them as well.

You can read more guidance for getting married in Scotland on the National Records of Scotland website.

 

Types of legal ceremonies

Humanist ceremony

The Humanist Society of Scotland says “a humanist wedding or civil partnership lets you celebrate your day your way. Your humanist celebrant will involve you in planning and writing your ceremony, creating a ceremony that’s a true reflection of you and your partner.”

It is worth noting that humanist ceremonies do not include religious components. If this is important to you, it is worth considering the other ceremony options below.

Humanist celebrants that I love working with include Claire Digance, Rona Burstow, Gary Smith, Ashton Easter, Vivienne Hyndman, Andrew Scott and Paul Browett.

 

Agnostic Ceremony

Agnostic Scotland shares that their role is the following: “Our Celebrants will be delighted to work with you to co-create, write and conduct a ceremony that reflects your own wishes, beliefs and values, whether that includes a faith-based, spiritual or non-religious ethos. All words, music, readings and rituals will be chosen entirely by you.”

Onie Tibbitt and Andrea Taylor are both agnostic celebrants you can reach out to.

 

Interfaith Ceremony

An interfaith ceremony can include any faith, mixed faith or no faith. You can be married indoors or outdoors and serve all people of any belief to create a unique ceremony for your day.

Hazel Jane is a beautiful interfaith minister based in Scotland.

 

Scotland Wedding Suppliers

Here in Scotland, we have so many talented wedding suppliers in all different areas. Below are some of my favourites to work with to help you get started with your planning.

Hair/makeup

Bonny’s Wonderland

AMM team

Hannah Rose

The Madeup Team

 

Flowers

Days of Dahlia

Tupelo Tree

Wild Flower Workshop

Gloam

Ochre Botanical Studios

Wild Gorse

To a Mountain Daisy

Verbena

Bothy Blooms

Pyrus

The Thistle & The Rose

 

Bagpipers

Spud the Piper

Munro Bagpiper

The Skye Piper